{"id":4399,"date":"2023-10-01T12:43:28","date_gmt":"2023-10-01T09:43:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/?p=4399"},"modified":"2023-10-09T12:01:06","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T09:01:06","slug":"grief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/en\/grief\/","title":{"rendered":"The stages of grief and part of our lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/en\/grief\/\">Grief<\/a> Grief is a natural reaction to loss, and each of us experiences it at some point in our lives. On the one hand, it can be universal and have a similar essence. On the other hand, grief is a very personal experience, so how long it lasts and how we cope with it can vary greatly from person to person.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"sisukord\">TABLE OF CONTENTS<br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#1\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> Death and grief as a part of life<\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#2\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> The 5 stages of grief <\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#3\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> How long does grief last? <\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#4\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> How to accept death and cope with grief?<\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#5\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> When to contact a grief counselor? <\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#6\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> How to support and what to say to a grieving person?<\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"local-scroll-link\" href=\"#7\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-long-arrow-right\"><\/span> What to consider when supporting children and the elderly in grief?<\/a><\/div>\n<h2 id=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Death and grief as a part of life<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-4402\" src=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/man-stress-out-cover-his-face-by-his-hands-2-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/man-stress-out-cover-his-face-by-his-hands-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/man-stress-out-cover-his-face-by-his-hands-2-1600x1066.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/man-stress-out-cover-his-face-by-his-hands-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/man-stress-out-cover-his-face-by-his-hands-2-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/man-stress-out-cover-his-face-by-his-hands-2-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/>Coping with the loss of a loved one is one of life&#039;s greatest challenges. Grief can also affect your physical health, making it difficult to sleep, eat, or even think. These are normal reactions to loss\u2014and the more significant the loss, the more intense the grief.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief is most often associated with the loss and death of a loved one, such as the death of a mother or father, the death of a child, spouse, sibling, or other family member, as well as the passing of a close friend. Although the loss of a loved one is the most intense and difficult experience of grief, the concept of grief is actually broader. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/between-the-generations\/201904\/4-types-grief-no-one-told-you-about\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychology Today has divided the grief experience related to loss into four types:<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: loss of identity, loss of security, loss of independence, loss of dreams or expectations. So any loss can cause grief, for example:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Divorce or relationship breakdown<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deterioration of health<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Losing a job<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Miscarriage<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Retirement<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Death of a pet<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Losing a cherished dream<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Serious illness of a loved one<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Losing a friendship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Loss of security after trauma<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sale of family home, etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regardless of the cause of your grief, there are healthy ways to cope with pain and grief that can ease your sadness over time and help you come to terms with your loss, find new meaning, and ultimately move on with your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The 5 stages of grief\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although there is no standard timeline for grieving, five stages of grief can be distinguished. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ekrfoundation.org\/5-stages-of-grief\/on-death-and-dying\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u00fcbler-Ross published in her work \u201cOn Death and Dying\u201d<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The five stages of grief, which is the most common description of the stages of the grieving process.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shock and denial. Denial is a common defense mechanism that helps a person cope with a difficult situation. For example, a person may hope that someone will tell them that it was a mistake and that their loved one is still alive. After the initial shock and denial reaction, numbness and a feeling that nothing matters anymore may develop.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anger and guilt. Strong emotions such as anger, guilt, and irritation may arise during this stage of grief. Questions such as \u201cWhy me?\u201d or \u201cWhat did I do to deserve this?\u201d may arise. The mourner may also suddenly become angry at things, strangers, friends, or family members. There may also be anger at life itself.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bargaining. The grieving person may think to themselves that they would do anything and sacrifice everything if life could be restored to the way it was before the loss. They may find themselves thinking, \u201cWhat if\u2026\u201d or \u201cIf only\u2026\u201d.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depression. In the context of grief, depression is not a sign of a mental health condition, but a natural part of the grieving process. During the depression phase, one is faced with one&#039;s current reality and experiences the inevitability of losing a loved one. Understandably, this realization can cause intense sadness and despair. A variety of feelings may occur:\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fatigue,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vulnerability,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">confusion and absent-mindedness,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unwillingness to move on,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of hunger and loss of appetite,\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">inability to enjoy what used to bring joy, etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 5. Acceptance. During this phase of grief, the person gradually begins to adapt to the loss. This does not mean that the pain disappears completely, but the person learns to live with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His approach has been refined, and one version of the 7 stages of grief is as follows:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shock<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Denial<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anger and frustration<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depression<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Testing and experimenting with a new situation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Determination and growing optimism about learning to cope with a new situation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accepting a new reality, reflecting on what you have learned, and changing as a person.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief-Related Issues<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens to a person after death?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are people who do not believe in existence after death and associate death with a permanent end. However, many religions consider the soul to be immortal and believe that at death one moves from one existence to another. In several religions (e.g. Hinduism), it is believed that after death there is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/et.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Reinkarnatsioon\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reincarnation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or being born again into another body. Many (e.g. Christians) are convinced that death is not the end of life, but the gateway to eternal life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what happens after death is largely related to religious, philosophical, and cultural beliefs, and different people and societies may answer this question differently.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"3\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How long does grief last?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief is a very individual experience, a personal matter for each mourner, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve. The length and manner of grief depends on many factors, including personality and coping style, life experiences, the circumstances of the death, cultural and religious beliefs, and the significance of the loss.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are people who follow traditions and have set a specific time limit for their mourning period. Often, mourning is also associated with wearing dark clothing and avoiding social events. According to a very old tradition, it is believed that a person&#039;s soul wanders the earth for 40 days after the death of the body, and therefore deep mourning lasts for 40 days after the death of a loved one.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you must be prepared for the fact that the grieving process will inevitably take time. Healing occurs gradually; it cannot be forced or rushed. Regardless of the grief experience, it is important to be patient with yourself and let the process unfold naturally.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do I have to go through the stages of grief in order to overcome grief?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief is a unique healing journey that is individual and may vary from person to person. Not everyone goes through the stages of grief in a linear fashion. There may be ups and downs, and sometimes people move from one stage of grief to another and then back again. Additionally, not everyone experiences all the stages of grief, and they may not be completed in the same order.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"4\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to accept death and cope with grief?<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allow yourself to experience pain and other emotions. Be compassionate, gentle, and forgiving with yourself.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is worth accepting practical help boldly. When it comes to the death of a loved one, in addition to your usual responsibilities, you need to find the strength to deal with the situation. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eesti.ee\/et\/perekond\/surma-registreerimine-ja-matused\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dealing with matters related to death and funerals<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If necessary and possible, allow yourself to be helped with any necessary activities, from household chores to tasks related to funeral arrangements.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be patient with the grieving process, give yourself enough time to grieve, and don&#039;t put pressure on yourself with expectations.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seek support from loved ones and, if desired, a grief counselor. Talk about your loss, your memories, your experiences with the life and death of your loved one. Try to understand what provides comfort and support. Sometimes it helps to share your experience with people who have also lost a loved one. You can also find honest stories and other supportive information from other people on the website <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/surmast.ee\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">death.ee<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, a comforting message and support comes from the church.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take care of yourself by eating a nutritious diet and being physically active.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to find time and opportunities for your favorite activities.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 id=\"5\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When to contact a grief counselor?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a person is experiencing intense grief and is unsure of how to cope with their grief, seeking help can provide comfort and support. Every reason for seeking a grief counselor is appropriate and sufficient, and it is worth listening to your gut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, there are situations where we would highly recommend seeking grief counseling if:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief is so intense and has such a strong impact that coping with everyday tasks becomes very difficult.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A bereaved person is someone else&#039;s sole or primary caregiver, such as a single parent or someone&#039;s caregiver.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are sleep disturbances or complaints about physical health (e.g. pain).<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meals or medication are missed because there is no desire to get up or do anything.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The intensity and frequency of emotions increase, rather than coming in waves or diminishing over time.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There have been thoughts of hurting others or oneself.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-destructive behavior occurs, such as substance abuse.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief counseling helps you accept the loss and find ways to move on with your life. The Healthy Life Center also offers services such as: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/en\/service\/psuhholoogiline-noustamine\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">psychological counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/en\/service\/paari-ja-pereteraapia\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couple and family therapy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/en\/service\/individuaalne-psuhhoteraapia\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">individual psychotherapy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/terveelukeskus.ee\/en\/service\/soul-care\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">soul care<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"6\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to support and what to say to a grieving person?<\/span><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Listening. The best support is simply being present and understanding, and letting them know that you are willing to listen to whatever the bereaved person wants to share, whenever they want to. It is also important to accept that the bereaved person does not want to talk. Give them time and space.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When expressing condolences, be sincere and empathetic. In addition to the wording of the message, it is important whether the expression of condolences comes from the heart.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accept the bereaved person&#039;s feelings and allow them to grieve in their own way. Avoid minimizing the pain of loss and giving unnecessary advice about how to grieve, such as &quot;Don&#039;t cry,&quot; &quot;Don&#039;t be sad,&quot; &quot;It&#039;s okay, we&#039;re here for you,&quot; &quot;Be strong,&quot; or, in the case of a spouse, &quot;You&#039;ll find a new partner.&quot;\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People&#039;s experiences of grief can vary greatly, and the support offered to the bereaved can vary. Some people are grateful to be able to share their thoughts and feelings with someone. Another person may be happy to receive practical help, such as cooking dinner or picking up groceries.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no need to take the mourner&#039;s emotions personally, they are part of the grieving process.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there are concerns about the bereaved person&#039;s mental health, or if there are signs of severe grief or depression, it is a good idea to talk about the possibilities of professional help, such as grief counseling.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3 id=\"7\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What to consider when supporting children and the elderly in grief?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The course of the grief process and need for support for children and the elderly may be somewhat different.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the case of children, it is understandable that the child&#039;s parents are probably also grieving, and it is difficult for them to cope with their feelings and support the child at the same time. It is also confusing what, how and how much should be said about the death and how the child can be supported. Children&#039;s grief can be more hidden and have a longer-lasting effect. It can manifest itself more often in behavior and psychosomatically. It is important to talk to the child about the situation in an age-appropriate way, pay attention to routine and a sense of security, help them understand their feelings and alleviate fears and guilt. Rituals can be helpful. Children of any age can be helped to cope with grief. Just like adults, it is worth being attentive and helping them to reach professional help if necessary. Children and young people are also <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastekriis.ee\/laagrid.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mourning camps<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The grief of the elderly is unique in that it is more difficult for them to make new friends and they are more likely to feel lonely. In addition, the death of a loved one can cause anxiety about the inevitability of one&#039;s own death, and the pain of loss experienced throughout life can accumulate, making it increasingly difficult to cope with each new grief.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, it is important to be patient and understanding and to offer human and practical support according to the needs of the bereaved person.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Grief is a natural reaction to loss, and each of us experiences it at some point in our lives. 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